One of the first steps in becoming more successful with women is to take care of your appearance. You don’t need to be a male model. You don’t even need to spend an incredibly large sums of money on your wardrobe. But you definitely should look ready to play the role.
If you are new to the game, you probably need to spend lots of money on grooming and fashion. You don’t need to go all the way before going out and meeting women, but there are some areas that can help you a lot. You need to prioritize your wardrobe requirements. Well, one of the first items that you can invest in is your footwear.
Why shoes are important? Because:
- It is widely known that the shoes are one of the first things that a woman notice when meeting a new guy. Women love shoes, and the men who are wearing a nice pair of shoes can get a head start.
- It is very likely that you are not physically fit now. In order to be more successful in the game (and even in life), you need to take care of your body. It means that you may have to shed some pounds, or gain some muscle. When I started this path on July 2007, my waistline was 36. Now it is 32. Imagine that if I had invested lots of money in designer jeans, I had to donate them to thrift stores, or try to sell them on ebay. However, when it comes to shoes, I have been wearing size 10 shoes, like forever now! It’s a part of your body that doesn’t change, so invest in it early on, when you are not at your best physically.
- You may know about the peacocking theory. Basically it says that you need to wear some interesting items, so if a woman is interested in you, she will have a reason (or an excuse!) to talk to you. Well, guess what? It is not that easy for every one to wear loud blazers or tight pants. However, wearing an interesting pair of shoes is much easier. And when you remember that the shoes are one of the first things that women notice, that is an excellent idea.
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